Have you ever cheated on someone? Been cheated on? Do you find it hard to trust people, or your significant other? Do you think you’re the only one out there that has these issues? Well don’t because you’re not. Thousands if not millions of people have been cheated on, and while granted in your particular case I’m sure it was the end of the world but you have to do your best to get over it. Trusting is a key trait to a healthy relationship. It’s difficult to envision any type of relationship that works well with the drama that has to do with a lack of trust. Trust me. I know.
So while I’m sure it’s tempting to check his Facebook page, or his cell phone, email accounts, Ipad or whatever other electronic cheating device you may have handy. Don’t. Have a little faith. An invasion of your significant others privacy without warrant is going to lead you down a very bad road. Not only does it show you have little faith in them, it also shows you’re some what psycho. I mean really, who wants to have their bf/gf go through their shit? Shouldn’t you trust me?
Now, granted you’re not going to listen to me and you’re going to pillege the shit out of their cheatologies (cheating technologies). And when you do, what’s going to happen when you find something you don’t like? Say you find out he’s been messaging another girl on Facebook. Or there’s some scandalous text messages from an ex gf or bf. At this point now you’re in worse shit then you started in. First it started with you admitting, at least to yourself, that you can’t trust your significant other. Now you’ve actually uncovered something you didn’t know exisited, but suspected it did. What in the fuck do you do at this point? Do you confront them? Do you tell them I found X,Y, or Z while going through your shit?
Granted, at this point you’re fucked one way or the other. You’ve just found out that unfortunately your suspicions were accurate and what’s more unfortunate is now you have to confront them about it because at this point you have to. You crossed a line and now you have to pay the consequences. Besides, do you want to be with someone who’s being shady behind your back? I know I don’t. So this leads down a relatively rocky road that leads to either you breaking up or having one hell of a massive blow out. And for what? Because you don’t have self restraint, or trust. There’s just no winning situation here. Do yourself a favor and trust the person you’re with. And if they’ve given you a reason not to, you either have to put up or shut up. Accept that there’s something going on and do nothing about it. Or pack your shit and bounce. The choice is yours. And there’s nobody who can tell you what is right or wrong to do at this point.